Captain's Log

The tighter you grip, the less fun you have

Anyone ever told you you’re a little uptight?  Perhaps you have a tight grip on life in an attempt to control life and avoid problems.  Author Robert A. Glover would point out the fundamental flaw in that approach.  “Life cannot be problem-free.  Instead, recognize the goal of living a life of INTEGRITY and ENJOYING THE WILD RIDE.  Control is an illusion.  Let go and let life happen.” 

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How to be really happy

If you want to improve your own happiness, the key is to actually think about the happiness of others.  As physician and humanitarian Albert Schweitzer said, “I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.” 

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What do others feel in your presence?

Often times we know how we feel in the presence of certain people.  Some folks brighten our days just by being near them while others put off a dark cloud of dreariness that you can physically feel anytime you are around them.  But what do others feel when in your presence?  A message delivered by a monk at the Self Realization Fellowship said the following: “The goal is to have so much love and God flowing in and from you that others can feel it when they are in your presence.”

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Are you on your track?

Although life isn’t one smooth and simple ride, it certainly can seem to flow along more easily when you are living authentically.  Or as Joseph Campbell said, “If you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living.”

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